The Rev. David Silk died in Torquay in September 2023.
He arrived as curate at the Holy Redeemer Church, Days Lane in 1963 and one of his remits was to develop church life at the ‘tin hut’ in Blackfen Road, opposite Leechcroft Avenue. Regular Sunday services began and there was soon a congregation of 90, packed into the hall with music by a harmonium and piano. The Woodman pub (now the George Staples) played a significant part in church life with meetings and fundraising events held there. The Bishop of Tonbridge was so impressed when he visited that he set aside money to build a new dual-purpose hall and church. Opened in 1967, the choice of the name was left to the people of Blackfen. ‘The Good Shepherd’ was chosen, and The Rev. David Silk became Priest-in-Charge. Fundraising continued in events that involved the whole community.
The picture below left shows Rev. David Silk (right) at the marriage of my Uncle George and Auntie Marion in the grounds of Holy Redeemer in 1963. Below right is The Church of the Good Shepherd building in 2020, with a new housing development already encroaching.
The Rev. David Silk went on to become Bishop of Ballarat in Australia. He was a great help to me in 2014 when I was researching the history of Blackfen. He said: “A few years ago I was in conversation with the man charged with writing my obituary. He asked me, ‘which were the best years?’ I was able honestly to say, ‘Blackfen and Ballarat’. Blackfen was because that is where we had a sense of freedom from stuffiness, where we learned from the companionship of the people with whom we shared the adventure of forming the Church of the Good Shepherd, a church in both senses of the word – a community as well as a building; Ballarat was because it all happened again – the same sense of freedom, of purpose and of companionship.”
When I told him that the future of the Good Shepherd building was uncertain and there was a possibility of redevelopment, he said: “At the very least I hope that it will be for the provision of affordable housing for which there is a desperate need right across the country.”
The Rev. Mgr David Silk, 1936-2023.